From EDM to āI doā
For Fiske Planetarium off-site education lead and Āé¶¹Ćā·Ń°ęĻĀŌŲBoulder astrophysics alumna MacKenzie Zurfluh, the famed dome isnāt just where she works, but where she found love
Did MacKenzie and Tanner Zurfluh fall in love and get married because of Fiske Planetarium? Not exactly, but it is where they met and it is where she works; plus, Tanner is frequently there helping out at various events. So, credit where credit is due, letās say that theirs is a Fiske love story.
It began in October 2018, when MacKenzie was serving in the U.S. Air Force and stationed in South Dakota, and Frederick native Tanner was living in Boulder with several roommates who attended the Āé¶¹Ćā·Ń°ęĻĀŌŲ.

MacKenzie and Tanner Zurfluh met at a Fiske Planetarium show in October 2018. (Photo: MacKenzie Zurfluh)
With all due respect to South Dakota, āthere wasnāt a lot to do there when youāre 19 and living on base,ā MacKenzie says. So, she and her then boyfriend decided one weekend to drive to Denver for an electronic dance music (EDM) show at Red Rocks and scouted around for something to do the other evening of their visit. They happened across the ILLENIUM laser show at Fiske.
Meanwhile, one of Tannerās roommates knew someone on the Fiske production team, and that friend of a friend got tickets to the ILLENIUM show for the group.
So, that was how two 19-year-olds who didnāt know each otherāone of whom had a boyfriend that she would break up with a week laterāended up at the same Fiske Planetarium EDM show on the same evening.
The show was greatāābecause all shows at Fiske are,ā says the unbiased MacKenzieāand afterward most of the audience migrated to the lobby to chat and make new friends. Tanner was in one amorphous circle and MacKenzie was in another, and eventually the two circles merged.
The closest they came to actually talking, though, was when MacKenzie complimented the jersey that one of Tannerās friends was wearing. And that was it.
āBut we kept running into each other,ā Tanner recalls.
Because of the aforementioned South Dakota issue and the fact that Coloradoās Front Range is an EDM hub, MacKenzie drove down most weekends and kept happening across this guy whose name she couldnāt quite remember.
Tanner, howeverā¦
After an EDM show at the Ogden Theater in December 2018, Tanner waited outside the theater for 45 minutes to see if sheād come out, not knowing sheād already left.
āMy friends had to drag me away,ā he says. āIt was the first night we talked, and I remember thinking, āCome hell or high water, she is going to be my wife.āā
A few weeks later, at the 2018 New Yearās Eve Decadence festival at the Colorado Convention Center, MacKenzie walked up to a group and put her arms around the two nearest people, one of whom happened to be Tanner.
By that point, she remembered his name. SnapChats were exchanged. They were officially Talking with a capital Tānot dating, but it wasnāt 100% platonic, either. āAfter weād been talking for a while, he looks at me and says, āWere you at Fiske on this day wearing this color beanie at this show?āā MacKenzie says.
On Feb. 4, 2019āyes, they remember the exact dayāthey decided: Weāre doing this.
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MacKenzie Zurfluh (left, with husband Tanner Zurfluh) graduated at Fiske Planetarium and was a speaker at the ceremony. (Photo: MacKenzie Zurfluh)
Black holes and relativity
In the beginning, MacKenzie left base on Friday afternoon, arrived in Boulder late Friday night and drove back to South Dakota Sunday afternoon. Tanner made the trip north a few times, but they both agreed there was more to do in Colorado.
However, MacKenzie was also getting ready to deploy to the Middle East and tried to give Tanner the olā āGo live your life, donāt worry about me.ā
āAnd I remember he goes, āThatās fine if you donāt want to have a relationship, but can I still be your friend?āā MacKenzie says, adding that while the deployment ended up being canceled, she was still there and he was here. āThat gave us the opportunity to build a really strong friend foundation. There were times where things sucked, and I had him to talk to.ā
When she planned to exit the military, MacKenzie knew she wanted to pursue a degree but wasnāt sure where. On the cusp of returning home to California, Tanner offered her an alternative: āCome live here."
Without MacKenzie knowing it, heād spent months finishing his motherās Frederick basement. She could live with him there and study astrophysics at Āé¶¹Ćā·Ń°ęĻĀŌŲBoulder, which is what she did. In the middle of earning her degree, while she was going to school full time and working as a server at a brewery in Longmont, she applied for a job at Fiske and got it.
āI wouldnāt be making as much, so I was really worried about how I was going to pay my bills, but I kept thinking that NASA doesnāt care if I was a waitress, they care if I worked at Fiske,ā she says.
āYou were chasing your dreams,ā Tanner adds. āStudying space and being in the field was always the goal.ā
āSo, he said to me, āWeāll figure it out,āā MacKenzie finishes, and thatās what they did.
In class she was studying black holes and relativity, and at work she was helping them come alive. And in the middle of all this, on the last day of finals in May 2022, kneeling in the chaos of their home remodelābecause theyād bought a house in DaconoāTanner proposed.
She said yes, but with the caveat that they couldnāt even think about planning a wedding until after she graduatedāwhich she did at Fiske Planetarium in May 2024. Seven months later, their wedding in California was essentially Fiske West because so many of MacKenzieās colleagues attended.
āOur director (Professor John Keller) calls Tanner a Fiske in-law,ā says MacKenzie, who is now the Fiske off-site education lead. āAny time thereās an event, heās here helping.ā
āItās great to be part of the Fiske family,ā says Tanner, who co-owns Jayhawk Tile LLC. Fiske has been part of many of their important moments, MacKenzie adds, and in fact her colleague Amanda Wimmer Flint, Fiske on-site education lead, programmed the ILLENIUM show at which they unknowingly first āmet.ā
Now, sitting in MacKenzieās office in the depths of Fiske, Tanner can be honest: āAs cheesy as it sounds, I fell in love with her smile and her laugh. I genuinely felt a connection.ā
MacKenzie beams at him and gestures to her left. āAnd it happened right out there.ā
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